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February 13 I Am Not YoursI am not yours, not lost in you, Not lost, although I long to be Lost as a candle lit at noon, Lost as a snowflake in the sea. You love me, and I find you still A spirit beautiful and bright, Yet I am I, who long to be Lost as a light is lost in light. Oh plunge me deep in love -- put out My senses, leave me deaf and blind, Swept by the tempest of your love, A taper in a rushing wind. January 10 Being TogetherLife gets somber
in times of bad weather, when one hand touches another, let them know they matter, the beauty of being together, our days get a little bit brighter. January 04 換個角度,你就是贏家。某家公司的秘書正恭謹地把名片交給董事長,一如預期,董事長不厭煩地把名片丟回去,很無奈地,
秘書把名片退回去給立在門外看盡尷尬的業務員,業務員不以為杵地再把名片遞給秘書, 「沒關係,我下次再來拜訪,所以還是請董事長留下名片。」
拗不過業務員的堅持,秘書硬著頭皮,再進辦公室,董事長火大了,將名片一撕兩半,丟回給秘書
。秘書不知所措地楞在當場,董事長更氣,從口袋拿出十塊錢, 「十塊錢買他一張名片,夠了吧!」
豈知當秘書遞還給業務員名片與銅板後,業務員很開心地高聲說:
「請你跟董事長說,十塊錢可以買二張我的名片,我還欠他一張。」隨即再掏出一張名片交給秘書。
突然,辦公室裡傳來一陣大笑,董事長走了出來,
「這樣的業務員不跟他談生意,我還找誰談?」
這是業務員每天都會碰到的場面,如果光是靠修養或到魔鬼營訓練,還是有洩氣時,超級業務員也有
倒地不起的一天。能自別人設下的困局跳脫者,都有一個本事,那就是--逆向思考,當你不順著設 局者的邏輯思考時,你才能出自己的招,去破解對手的招數說是阿Q也好,說是三八也罷,卻是完全 自我的主宰者。 一個在金融界工作的朋友,新進公司做基金研究員時,不知怎地,主管老是看他不順眼,比如邀請大
家下班後到他家吃火鍋,總是不小心漏了他。朋友給自己打氣的方式是,去「阿杜」吃港式高級火鍋 ,「比他還享受!」。主管要給他難堪,哪知他更得意!而主管分配給他的基金,老是冷門商品,很 難有業績上的表現,他也不氣。 現在,朋友說:「還好他這樣對我,否則我現在只能做研究分析。」 主管的態度逼使他走出另一條路來,現在他在另一家公司的行銷企畫部如魚得水;「很謝謝他的造就」 。 人的胸襟有多大,成就就有多大,爭一時不如爭千秋,
更何況你怎麼知道,上帝的佈局不是要讓你扛起更大的責任呢?
忍一時之氣,退一步海闊天空,
反倒是處處是出路,別把精神能量虛擲在不值得的人身上 換個角度,你就是贏家。 January 03 未成年懷孕一個16歲的女孩跟她母親說她已經2個月沒來了....
母親一聽不得了趕緊去藥房買了驗孕劑來確認一下 ...結果女孩真的懷孕了! 母親又哭又罵的問到: "到底是那個渾蛋幹的好事,你給我從實招來 !!"
女孩只好打了通電話 ...半小時後,一部亮眼的保時捷疾駛到了女孩家門,而跨出車門的是位全身名牌衣著又風度
翩翩的中年紳士!!紳士進入屋內與女孩及她的父母雙親在客廳坐了下來 "午安!"
紳士禮貌的向她們問候並說道:
"令嬡剛剛告知了我這個大問題,但是因為我的個人家庭問題,很抱歉我無法娶令嬡為妻,不過我會負該負的責任"
"這樣好了,如果生的是女孩,我會留3家店面,2間房子,1棟海邊別墅及一個200萬美金的帳戶給她"
"如果生的是男孩,我會讓他繼承2家公司,2間房子再加上一個200萬美金的帳戶"
"如果生的是雙胞胎,那就每人繼承1家公司,1棟別墅還有各100萬美金的帳戶"
"但如果不幸流產了 ..........."
此時在一旁沉默已久的父親,突然站起來,並把手緊緊的搭在紳士的肩上後說:
你可以再給她一次機會嗎? December 29 堅強點,親愛的,我愛你有一個囚犯從關了他15年的監獄逃跑了。他越獄後,闖入了一間民宅,看到一對年輕的夫妻躺在床上。
他就把那個丈夫趕下床,綁在椅子上,然後把太太綁在床上,他上了床親吻那太太的脖子,然後就進去
了洗手間。
當那個逃犯在洗手間的時候,丈夫跟他的太太說:聽著,這個男的是個逃犯,看看他穿的衣服就知道!
他有可能被關很久了,而且很久沒碰過女人,假如他想做愛,千萬不要抵抗,也不要抱怨,就讓他做想
做的事,滿足他就好了。
這種人非常危險,假如惹他生氣的話,他可能會把我們都殺了。
堅強一點,親愛的,我愛你。。。。
這時候他太太說:我很高興你能夠這樣想,沒錯!他很久沒碰女人了,但是他剛剛不是在親我的脖子,
他是在我耳邊小聲的說"我覺得你老公很性感",便問我洗手間有沒有潤滑液。
堅強一點,親愛的,我愛你。。。。 November 28 一塊地,總有一粒種子適合它有一個女孩,沒考上大學,被安排在本村的小學教書。
由於講不清數學題,不到一週被學生轟下台。 母親為她擦了擦眼淚,安慰說,滿肚子的東西,
有人倒得出來,有人倒不出來,沒必要為這個傷心, 也許有更適合你的事情等著你去做。 後來,她又隨本村的夥伴一起外出打工。
不幸的是,她又被老闆轟了回來, 原因是剪裁衣服的時候,手腳太慢了,品質也過不了關。 母親對女兒說,手腳總是有快有慢,
別人已經幹了很多年了,而你一直在念書,怎麼快得了? 女兒先後當過紡織工,幹過市場管理員,做過會計,
但無一例外,都半途而廢。 然而每次女兒沮喪回來時,母親總安慰她,從沒有抱怨。
三十歲時,女兒憑著一點語言天賦,做了聾啞學校的輔導員。
後來,她又開辦了一家殘障學校, 再後來,她在許多城市開辦了殘障人用品連鎖店, 她已經是一個擁有幾千萬資產的老闆了。 有一天,功成名就的女兒湊到已經年邁的母親面前,
她想得到一個一直以來想知道的答案。 那就是前些年她連連失敗,自己都覺得前途渺茫的時候,
是什麼原因讓母親對她那麼有信心呢? 母親的回答樸素而簡單,她說,
一塊地,不適合種麥子,可以試試種豆子; 豆子也長不好的話,可以種瓜果; 瓜果也不濟的話,撒上一些蕎麥種子一定能開花, 因為一塊地,總有一粒種子適合它,也終會有屬於它的一片收成。 聽完母親的話,女兒落淚了,她明白了,實際上,
母親恆久而不絕的信念和愛,就是一粒堅韌的種子。 她的奇蹟,就是這粒種子執著而生長出的奇蹟。 August 18 沒有永遠對錯的價值觀朋友手拿一份報紙 說讓我做一個小小的測驗,我欣然同意了。 問題一:如果你知道有一個女人懷孕了,她已經生了八個小孩, 其中有三個耳朵聾,兩個眼睛瞎,一個智能不足,而這女人自己 又有梅毒,請問,你會建議她墮胎嗎? 我剛要回答,朋友制止了我,又問我第二個問題。 問題二:現在要選舉一名領袖,而你這一票很關鍵。 下面是關於這三位候選人的一些事實: 候選人A: 跟一些不誠實的政客有往來,而且會咨詢占星學家。 他有婚外情,是一個老煙槍,每天喝8─10杯的馬丁尼。 候選人B: 他過去有兩次被解雇的記錄,睡覺睡到中午才起來, 大學時吸過鴉片,而且每天傍晚會喝一誇特的威士忌。 候選人C: 他是一位受勛的戰爭英雄,素食主義者,不抽煙, 只偶爾喝一點啤酒。從沒有發生過婚外情。 請問你會在這些候選人中選哪一個? 朋友讓我把答案寫在紙上,然後告訴我說: 候選人A是:富蘭克林﹒羅斯福 候選人B是:溫斯頓﹒邱吉爾 候選人C是:亞道夫﹒希特勒 我聽了答案? 瞪大雙眼.張大嘴巴。 朋友表情凝重地問我:你是不是為世界人民選擇了希特勒?那你會建議這位婦女墮胎嗎? 我說:這個問題不用考慮,我們受計劃生育優生優育教育多年了,都生那麼多歪瓜劣棗了 ,就別再添亂了。當然墮胎啊! 朋友說:你殺了貝多芬,她是貝多芬的母親。 我又一次吃驚地張大了嘴巴。 朋友說:嚇一跳吧?本來你認為很好很人道主義的答案,結果卻扼殺了貝多芬、創造了希特勒? 最後朋友總結道:所以不要用既定的價值觀來思考事物。 January 13 A rope.I would like to share a little story with you. The story tells about a mountain climber, who wanted to climb the highest mountain. He begun his adventure after many years of preparation, but since he wanted the glory just for himself, he decided to climb the mountain alone.
He started to climb but it begun to get very late, and instead of preparing his tent to camp, he kept climbing until it got very dark.
The night felt heavy in the heights of the mountain, and the man could not see anything. All was black. Zero visibility, and the moon and the stars were covered by the clouds.
As he was climbing, only a few feet away from the top of the mountain, he slipped and fell into the air, falling at a great speed. The climber could only see black spots as he went down, and the terrible sensation of being sucked by gravity. He kept falling… and in those moments of great fear, it came to his mind all the good and bad episodes of his life.
He was thinking now about how close death was getting, when all of a sudden he felt the rope tied to his waist pull him very hard. His body was hanging in the air.. Only the rope was holding him, and in that moment of stillness he had no other choice but to scream: HELP ME GOD!!
All of a sudden, a deep voice coming from the sky answered:
- What do you want me to do?
- Save me God!!
- Do you really think I can save you?
- Of course I believe You can
- THEN CUT THE ROPE TIED TO YOUR WAIST….
There was a moment of silence; and the man decided to hold on to the rope with all his strength.
The rescue team tells, that the next day a climber was found dead and frozen… his body hanging from a rope. His hands holding tight to it… ONLY 10 FEET AWAY FROM THE GROUND…
And you? How attached are you to your rope? Will you let go?
Don’t ever doubt the things from God. You never should say that He has forgotten or abandoned you. Don’t ever think that He does not take care of you. Remember that He is always holding you with His right hand. Is. 41:13
November 14 Irish LuckHis name was Fleming, and he was a poor Scottish farmer. One day, while trying to make a living for his family, he heard a cry
for help coming from a nearby bog. He dropped his tools and ran to the
bog. There, mired to his waist in black muck, was a terrified boy,
screaming and struggling to free himself. Farmer Fleming saved the lad
from what could have been a slow and terrifying death.
The next day, a fancy carriage pulled up to the Scotsman's sparse
surroundings. An elegantly dressed nobleman stepped out and introduced
himself as the father of the boy Farmer Fleming had saved.
"I want to repay you," said the nobleman. "You saved my son's life."
"No, I can't accept payment for what I did," the Scottish farmer
replied waving off the offer. At that moment, the farmer's own son
came to the door of the family hovel.
"Is that your son?" the nobleman asked.
"Yes," the farmer replied proudly.
"I'll make you a deal. Let me provide him with the level of education
my own son will enjoy. If the lad is anything like his father, he'll no
doubt grow to be a man we both will be proud of." And that he did.
Farmer Fleming's son attended the very best schools and in time,
graduated from St. Mary's Hospital Medical School in London, and went on
to become known throughout the world as the noted Sir Alexander Fleming,
the discoverer of Penicillin.
Years afterward, the same nobleman's son who was saved from the bog was
stricken with pneumonia.
What saved his life this time? Penicillin.
The name of the nobleman? Lord Randolph Churchill. His son's name?
Sir Winston Churchill.
Someone once said: What goes around comes around.
Work like you don't need the money.
Love like you've never been hurt.
Dance like nobody's watching.
Sing like nobody's listening.
Live like it's Heaven on Earth.
It's National Friendship Week. Send this to everyone you consider A
FRIEND.
Pass this on, and brighten someone's day.
AN IRISH FRIENDSHIP WISH: You had better send
this back!! Good Luck!
I hope it works...
May there always be work for your hands to do;
May your purse always hold a coin or two;
May the sun always shine on your windowpane;
May a rainbow be certain to follow each rain;
May the hand of a friend always be near you;
May God fill your heart with gladness to cheer you. November 09 God has a positive answerThe only survivor of a shipwreck
was washed up on a small, uninhabited island. He prayed feverishly for God to rescue him,
and every day he scanned the horizon for help, but none seemed forthcoming. Exhausted, he eventually managed to build a little hut
out of driftwood to protect him from the elements, and to store his few possessions. But then one day, after scavenging for food,
he arrived home to find his little hut in flames, the smoke rolling up to the sky. The worst had happened; everything was lost.
He was stunned with grief and anger. "God, how could you do this to me!" he cried. Early the next day, however, he was awakened
by the sound of a ship that was approaching the island. It had come to rescue him. "How did you know I was here?" asked the weary man of his rescuers. "We saw your smoke signal," they replied. It is easy to get discouraged when things are going bad. But we shouldn't lose heart, because God is at work in our lives,
even in the midst of pain and suffering. Remember, next time your little hut is burning to the ground
it just may be a smoke signal that summons the grace of God. For all the negative things we have to say to ourselves, God has a positive answer. You say: "It's impossible"
God says: All things are possible (Luke 18:27) You say: "I'm too tired"
God says: I will give you rest (Matthew 11:28-30) You say: "Nobody really loves me"
God says: I love you (John 3:16 & John 3:34) You say: "I can't go on"
God says: My grace is sufficient (II Corinthians 12:9 & Psalm 91:15) You say: "I can't figure things out"
God says: I will direct your steps (Proverbs 3:5-6) You say: "I can't do it"
God says: You can do all things (Philippians 4:13) You say: "I'm not able"
God says: I am able (II Corinthians 9:8) You say: "It's not worth it"
God says: It will be worth it (Roman 8:28) You say: "I can't forgive myself"
God says: I Forgive you (I John 1:9 & Romans 8:1) You say: "I'm poor"
God says: I will supply all your needs (Philippians 4:19) You say: "I'm afraid"
God says: I have not given you a spirit of fear (II Timothy 1:7) You say: "I'm always worried and frustrated"
God says: Cast all your cares on ME (I Peter 5:7) You say: "I don't have enough faith"
God says: I've given everyone a measure of faith (Romans 12:3) You say: "I'm not smart enough"
God says: I give you wisdom (I Corinthians 1:30) You say: "I feel all alone" God says: I will never leave you or forsake you (Hebrews 13:5) |
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